I kinda get that one. But the one act seems to reign supreme as the biggest center of controversy and that is anal sex. The reason why some people have such a terrible experience is that the anus does not expand and repair itself as well as the vagina and sex can cause rips and pain if not done properly. Because of so many women having these terrible experience with anal sex, it can lead to understandable apprehension, which can then lead to coercion by their partner. Because we see anal sex as taboo and scary, there is less of a dialogue about it and therefore people are less likely to discuss it, even to say no.
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We got women who fall on various parts of the anal sex spectrum to share exactly what it feels like during the act. Read on for their informative — and sometimes hilarious — opinions. But if you're not and you do it nice and slowly, it's euphoric. It's different from regular sex because it feels like he's going way deeper. Anal doesn't help me orgasm more easily, though. We maybe do it once every couple of months.
Anal is one of those topics people ask me about in hushed whispers, and anonymous emails. In fact, according to a study by the Journal of Sexual Medicine , which looked at over 10, heterosexual women between the ages of 15 and 44, one in three of us have paid a visit to Butt Land at some point. A study of around 2, sexually active people aged 18 to 59 by the National Survey of Sex, found the only method for women to reach climax as regularly as men do reportedly 91 percent of the time , is by being on the receiving end of anal. If you follow a healthy, fibre-rich diet, drink plenty of water, and adhere to good hygiene, the odds of you shitting on your partner during anal are about as high as the odds of not being put on hold next time you ring your cell phone provider. When using fingers, always ensure nails are trimmed and clean, as the tissue inside the anus is particularly prone to tearing, which can make you more vulnerable to infection.
Would you say anal sex is demeaning to women? Man A: The only way it can be is with the intent to demean. A friend of mine who is a pretty ardent feminist and former National Organization for Women intern told me she used to think doggy style sex was demeaning to women until she tried it and found it felt awesome. So no, anal isn't demeaning to women as long as she's a willing participant and the intent is for both people to have fun and get off. Man B: No.