Guys, believe me when I tell you that this is the biggest sin you can commit when trying to seduce a woman. It will not send us into an orgasmic swoon. Try hugging or kissing. Hold and squeeze our hand. Unload the dishwasher yourself.
My life in sex: ‘My wife wants a desire-free old age. But I still see her as my sexual partner’
I Wish My Wife Knew How Much I Love Having Sex With Her - His View From Home
Let me make something clear up front. You might be tempted to think that there would never be a time when you, as a man, would turn down the sexual advances of your wife. Or, if for some reason you did, your rejection would be as rare as the appearance of an albino zebra. I understand that feeling.
The dinner itself was merely adequate, but the company and the conversation were wonderful. So, we got home, I kissed her goodnight, told her I loved her, and proceeded to the bedroom alone. As I awoke the following day, and like on so many other occasions previously, I felt that I had once again let another opportunity to be together slip away. I honestly wish I could convey exactly what that means to me.
My wife and I married when we were in our early 20s. We enjoyed our sex life, though I never felt she enjoyed it as much as I did. Her menopause began when she was Hot flushes were the main symptoms, accompanied by restless nights, irritability and a declining interest in sex.