The phrase "familiarity breeds contempt" applies to sex, too. Going through all the same motions in the bedroom, time and time again, doesn't exactly help in the love department. Relationship experts recommend keeping things spontaneous , whether that means trying a different time, place, sex position, or just generally being more adventurous. The goal is to avoid falling into a cycle of boring "duty" sex, but also to foster healthy habits in a long-term relationship. We asked 11 real women for their favorite sex moves, then consulted sex experts for their tips on how to upgrade your own go-to moves so they feel new and exciting.
11 Women Reveal Their Favorite Sex Positions, Because Nothing Is Better Than Getting Off
Some things in life are better on repeat: Friends , perfectly sunny beach days, your trusty manicure. Your sexcapades, though? Definitely not one of them. Even the hottest spark in the bedroom needs new sex positions to stoke the flames from time to time—otherwise things get boring, fast.
This Is What Your Sex-Position Bucket List Should Look Like
Turns out, the women surveyed said that cowgirl woman on top was their favorite position and was ranked in the top spot by 30 percent of participants. Next up were doggy-style top pick for 21 percent , missionary 20 percent and 69 13 percent. As far as the position that helps women reach orgasm fastest, cowgirl came out on top again and was also ranked as the position that makes women feel the sexiest. And when it came to their preference for what helps them reach orgasm best and fastest , sex toys were the clear winner, with nearly one-third of participants listing them above dirty talk, watching porn with a partner, anal sex and BDSM. Women reported feeling sexiest when they wore lingerie followed by when they engage in dirty talk with their partner, practice BDSM, do role-playing and incorporate spanking.
Here's the thing about having sex with women: We all like it a little bit differently, so women's favorite sex positions can vary depending on the partner, the mood, or even time of day. Some like missionary all day, every day, while others prefer doggy style. Still others have discovered sex positions so out-of-the-box that they don't even have names, but do wonders for their bodies and romantic relationships. Unfortunately, a lot of romance movies and other media feature unrealistic sex scenes where there's little to no foreplay and both partners get off at the same time after just a few seconds of rocking the bed.